How does one succeed in life?
12.06.2025 03:46
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
What I need from you?
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
What would happen if the Earth stopped spinning for one minute?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Ask yourself:
Are fanservice-y characters (i.e. Lara Croft, Tifa Lockhart) immediately bad?
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Is love natural, or is it somehow created?
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Why are daughters mean to their mothers?
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
What sexual experience did you have at a highway rest area?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Do Republicans give permission to Democrats to vote for any candidate except for Kamala Harris?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Do not set goals—set systems.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Making more friends is a goal.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
That's it for today.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Does not procrastinate.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Procrastinates a lot.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.